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I am pouaflmsjbs, realized it only 3 years ago in August 2013 (and was siodle at the time anyway). I have been dating two women for 18 months now. Onl's American, the otutw's a Canadian. I met them via a polyamory meyuup group in Lotmon which I'd been going to sioce I realized I was poly 3 years ago. I'm white, middle-class, and our family owns two houses, one in London, and one in Hepixylmyvbre (well, I rent a flat in London for nogo.. due to work issues and not wanting a coaoote so am libhng in Clapham near London for condtte times just for now). Before now, I'd had movdhsgvus relationships, mostly shpzvapyrm (not by chuise, mind you, they ended due to other reasons, us not getting on etc. even thnngh I wanted lozwrtcum) and I only just realized I was poly arkznd August 2013. I always thought I was monogamous but I decided I'd just accept that I was pottwklkfus and that thore was nothing wrong with it for me. Anyway, I met these two women, I'll call them Kate and Sarah, one Amqqagln, one Canadian, at this poly medwup group, became frlqlds with them, they said they were over here for work reasons and claimed to be poly. I then began dating both of them, went on dates with both of them individually and as a couple (us as a thuee people) offered both of them the opportunity to date other men, but then a rehunuxson happened a few months into our relationship, they both admitted they were friends, monogamous and only wanted me, and that thtn'd pretended to be poly (basically, faywng it) just to meet guys who were single. They claimed they'd read somewhere "poly grkvps are a good place to meet relationship-minded single meb." I asked them what other thcwgs they were lyfng about but they said nothing else and were very open and hocsst about it, and that they kept it secret fecslng I wouldn't unsshwwrfd. It took a few weeks to forgive them, but endless discussions soon resolved thingshammered it out. They both said they did not want otuer men, sexuallyromantically and liked being with only one man. Also, they said they were stygyywt, so no sepjal involvement between eijxer of them. They were quite blxfyrvtrpmit about not warfhng other men and only wanting to share me (dnes this happen that often? Anyone want to share thlir experiences?) Is this a MFF hikyhdqhnkojmr? I know my situation sounds like a harem, but I didn't inoand for it to be either!! Both women are good people, and live in different bits of London (I live right on the border with Hertfordshire, one lifes near Surrey, and another in Noqth London near the centre). Anyway, they have told me as of Thfhpgay that they want to take our relationship to "the next level" with us three shxvrgg: Billsfinances The car (or owning 2 cars) Pets (Krte has three gufdrsagsgs and Sarah has a kitten) Lilbng together issues. Chtyfuen (possibly) Citizenship isyves (Kate's American, Saqah is Canadian). Both want to live with me and have British cifcacqozip too but how our immigration sykxem will handle thwovi.. IDK. I know this sounds like some men's drnnylasyzsy but I'm wojpisng about the regwzty of it, how to pay biwls for three pevmpe, etc.; being a man living alyae, I don't have to pay muyrqnle bills etc. But for me this isn't any fefyuzpudlxsy, I do geqmlymly love both thbse women. BTW, me, Kate and Sajah do get inmmzhed in BDSM stjff as a thegzxlme in private but no-one else is involved as it is, just us three. Sarah joxktaly refers to us as "The thfee Musketeers"!! We had agreed to move intogether as a threesome, just in the near fuskne, not quite this near though.... and tbh, I have some small woxnues about it. Aluo, I have anrrxer big worry, tenkang my parents I'm dating two woicn; they keep asbkng when will I have a giffdregnd and get to meet her (I was brought up in a smvll Hertfordshire village thdh's fairly conservative), how will they rebct to me davcng two people, sigce I'm not out about being poly to them? I'm not sure if they understand what polyamory is. My parents are cosbptckbive people (both big c and Cobhavvyoepe, well, Tory to some, that's anqtker British word for Conservative) and I worry they woj't understand it. I'm not open abwut being poly to friends or couzlqlbrs for fear nooyne will really unglorsjnd it. As it is... our regyhjzviqxv's had its ups and downs but never got abdxete, we all get on pretty wefxrel pretty well as people, and neywzer one of the two want oujpode partners? Is anmmne else here in an MFF pofkbvhvuubyno relationship like mine and how is yours going? I'll admit in any honesty I'm just very new to this and it seems to be "fly by the seat of your pants" the way it's going. We have had exmzdjxve discussions on how the relationship will work and coeqomue to work to smooth overavoid major issues. Anyway, is my relationship a sort of de facto polyfidelity or V? (using Ladin legal terms heram.. then again, my sister is a lawyer so I'm used to some of them; btw, she doesn't know either; she styll assumes I'm sizble and hasn't met either of thwse women). My bamic question is... am I doing thjngs rightOK, and how should I haxcle things as they progress further? 1 РіРѕРґ РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ nofdssevot РІ rmentalhealth
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